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Penetration is physically impossible

There are some physical conditions (ignoring Vaginismus, which is usually treatable - see Female Problems) in which penetration of the vagina is simply not possible. In this circumstance, there are not too many options available. Assuming for a moment that there is a wish to maintain the relationship, they are:

(There are other options, including placing the penis against/within other body parts such as armpit, breast, clenched buttocks or legs but these can lead to frustration for both male and female)

It is likely that the first option is a 'non-starter' or the client would probably not have consulted with you in the first place. Anal sex is just not comfortable for most females, though many do enjoy it; sometimes, too, a female in this situation might decide to 'just get on with it'. This leaves masturbation as a viable proposition and with the enormous variety that the inventive mind can conjure up, the relationship can remain sexual, intimate and romantic.

For something that is perhaps more intimate than some other masturbatory methods, the following can be rewarding: colloquially, it is best referred to as a 'leg shag', 'leg love' or whatever phrase is normally used to refer to sexual intercourse preceded by 'leg'. The easiest way to do this is for the male to lie on his back, holding his partner as she lies on her side facing towards him. She straddles his thigh and masturbates against his leg while he masturbates himself. It is possible, if both individuals are reasonably fit, to attain an almost frontal position, though the male will then almost certainly ejaculate on her belly - as long as she is happy about this, they will probably discover a great intimacy where there was previously little or none.

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